Like an idiot?

Mornin'

Ever feel like an idiot when you attempt something new? Well, when it comes to my computer, I get this feeling often. I am in the beginning stages of a website design and I am not even close to being proficient at using the wordpress software. In fact, this is the first time I have used it. I feel so inadequate when I attempt most things that are technology based; especially when there are countless twenty-somethings who are old enough to be my children and seem to "get it". Despite my struggles, my love is in computers and technology. I really enjoy working on my computer after I get through all the feelings of inadequacy.

I am what you might call a late bloomer when it comes to technology. In fact, I didn't even start a computer until I was in my thirties. Well, I am now forty-six and can honestly say that I have just scratched the surface with this whole computer thing. The fascinating thing about computers is that the more I learn about them, the more I realize what I have yet to learn. When all is said and done, I have a lot of fun with the little rascals. Using my computer helps me keep my brain active. It seems I learn something new everyday when either I explore the internet and many types of software myself or someone teaches me something they know.

Life is a huge learning curve so the best thing for me to do is to remember to not compare myself with anybody else and just learn at my pace. I can't expect to have a gorgeous website without learning how to build it properly. Everything takes time and the best things in life are certainly worth waiting for. This can translate to all areas of my life. I am here to learn and treat myself and others with respect and dignity.

Peace

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The Simple Things

Mornin'

Like most everybody, I have a Facebook account. I read and see a lot through this form of social media and it always amazes me how the simple, candid moments caught on camera or in writing seem to move me the most. I am talking about babies' laughter, animals being themselves and performing often bizarre acts, short quotes, and many more. Whether it is through laughter or touching moments, I always seem to get my fuel for a sometimes demanding day or evening.

One thing in particular that has truly warmed my heart is rekindling or even beginning relationships. I think the platform of social media removes the insecurities from each person in the relationships so they can communicate more freely and real than they may have ever done before. I really enjoy the simple task of commenting something touching or funny about someones post. Simple actions like these really add spice to live.

Peace

What about those people making noises?

Mornin'

Everybody knows these people and may participate in this type of activity themselves. I'm talking about the impatient ones who grunt and groan in a valiant attempt at moving things along faster. Don't feed into it for, in doing so, you will fuel the fire more than come to a peaceful resolution. It's okay to not say a thing. Your peace of mind is far more precious than boosting your ego. As we practice this type of behavior more, it becomes easier to practice it. Most of the time, those impatient, angry individuals whispering expletives under their breath are not only unable to exercise patience and maintain control of their emotions, but also want more than anything to suck you right into their dysfunctional world. You are a far better and mature man/woman when you do not engage with these folks. Good luck.

Peace

P.S. Just so you know, I have been there and done that.

Just what are we fascinated with?

Mornin'

During my cup of Joe this morning a thought occurred to me. I thought how common it seems to be that humans are more fascinated by other animals and inanimate objects in a healthy way than they are with each other. We think other animals and things are so cute and adorable. We want to know all about them and may even take one in as a pet. We rarely judge these creatures and objects.

On the other hand, we do judge and speculate about how others should behave and may even think we are right in our judgements. In participating in this type of behavior we may not even realize that we are fascinated in a strange way with those around us. We just seem to follow our fascination in often bizarre ways.

How about if all of us started really being intrigue by our fellow humans? Why not ask ourselves in a non-judgmental way why people act in certain ways. Maybe we would like to know more about their nationality, or religion, or political views, or why they dress a certain way, or what type of education do they have, etc. There is a far more compassionate conduit through which we can discover the answers to what fascinates us. There is, in my opinion, nothing wrong with curiosity about others. In fact, discovering the answers to our curiousness about others would probably draw us closer to one another in more compassionate ways. Where we cross the line into unhealthy patterns of thinking is when we unleash the beast of habitual judgment.

Jealousy, envy, resentment, and a plethora of other negative emotions are poison to our communities. Don't you think we should view life more as an educational experience rather than a competition?

Peace

What about the dream?

Mornin'

I wanted to discuss briefly the importance of refusing to let anyone or anything thwart our progress towards realizing our goals and dreams. I have personally let a myriad of issues get in the way of my dreams on many occasions. Sure, it was sad to diverge from these dreams and there were many times I was unsure as to whether or not I would ever realize some of them.

The interesting thing about dreams and goals is that, no matter what we allow to get in the way of these important issues, we can always dream and set goals again. They may or may not be the same goals as before. The concept I am focusing on is the certainty that no one, absolutely no one or nothing, can extinguish your goals permanently. It is solely up to us to set and achieve our goals. If something happens where our goals and dreams need to be put on hold for a variety of reasons, we can still get back on course and make them a reality.

I can tell you that, no matter how many times you fall or your dreams and aspirations become clouded, you can succeed at what it is you always dreamed of doing. I am living proof of this miraculous experience. Good luck!

Peace